Fear & Failure
Posted by
Petra Geiger. Owner & Founder Beehive Co-op
Usually I spend my evening hours working...clock strikes 8pm and the kids are in bed and I get to curl up with my computer (I know many of you do this too because I'm always trading e-mails with you guys until late into the night). But a few nights ago I was flipping through the tv channels finding nothing to watch when I happened on "the Big Idea: Donny Deutsch". Well Sarah Blakely was on, the owner of Spanx (you know of slimming undergarment fame), and since she's from Atlanta and has made a fortune with her product I thought I'd check her out.
She's definitely a go-getter, lot's of energy and personality, but what I really liked about her was her honesty about the whole processes. She's definitely not afraid to say what she thinks - she comes across as supremely confident. She said one thing that really articulated how I feel sometimes. She talked about fear. That fear you get when you are faced with something unknown and scary. Where your first instinct is to back away and say no "I can't do this". But it's the instinct to recognize the feeling and know that you MUST push forward and try something new, take a risk, make a decision that makes people successful. Growth will never happen if you stick to the safe route and let your fear of failure conquer you. It was good to know that I wasn't the only one who had those fearful moments. They're pretty healthy and I think you just need to trust your instinct and know when is the time to push through them and when is the time to listen. For me, more often than not, I have to push those feelings of fear aside and concentrate on how I'm going to do something not whether or not I'm going to do it!


